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How to Attract Women - Naturally

Jan 16, 2008
The first thing you need to know about how to attract women is that: It is something that you can learn.

If you find that women aren't paying you much attention lately, or that you tend to lose a woman's interest quite quickly - then you can definitely change that.

Unlike women who are stuck with their physical looks (the thing that attracts men the most), men can quickly improve their personality (the thing that attracts women the most).

It doesn't take long if you know what to work on. Personally, when I discovered how to attract women, I went from having no women in my life to always having a woman to date or get into a relationship with.

The reality is that some guys are good with women and some are not. You can be one of the guys who is good with women. To help you get there today, I'm now going to give you some free tips on the subject of attracting women.

How to Attract Women Tip #1: Don't try to impress women

It's absolutely fine to be impressive around women (e.g. a confident guy, funny, great conversationalist, good sense of style, etc), but one of the biggest turn offs for an attractive woman is when a guy tries to blatantly impress her.

It shows that you see her as having more value than you and that you are trying to get with HER more than she is trying to get with YOU. That approach is the opposite of what women mean when they say, "I want a guy who is a challenge."

Don't make it difficult for yourself by not being what women actually want. We don't want women who don't meet our standards of attractiveness, and neither do women.

How to Attract Women Tip #2: Develop the key personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women

Women are attracted to very specific things about men, which are the same no matter what country you live in. So, why not develop those specific things and become your most attractive self?

These specific things include: Confidence, Masculinity or Alpha Male, Humor & Being a Funny Guy, Being Challenging & Unpredictable, Charm, a Sense of Style, Adventurousness, Social Intelligence.

I have to ask you though: Are you actually willing to work on those things if it means dating the women you really want to be with? How important is it to you?

If you don't take action now to learn how to attract and date the women you want, will you regret all the wasted years later in life? I know that I regret the 10 years that I wasted not being attractive to women. I cringe sometimes when I think of all the opportunities I passed up.

How to Attract Women Tip #3: Become a more interesting person

Unlike the lifestyles depicted by TV shows like The O.C or Grey's Anatomy, most modern women live pretty ordinary lives.

Further, most women are wishing and hoping to meet an interesting guy who can add more excitement, adventure and spontaneity to their life. When a woman asks you, "So, what have you been up to lately?" it's an awesome chance to demonstrate that you do actually have a life going on.

Doing so allows a woman to then imagine herself in your life. Your reply will either help fuel her attraction and interest for you, or kill it.

If you currently live a pretty boring lifestyle (e.g. work, eat, watch TV, catch up with a friend or two) then start getting more active. Join some clubs, attend some festivals, try new adventurous activities and add more spice to your life.

The more you have going on in your life (i.e. activities that include other people), the more chance you have to meet and attract new women. Sitting on the sidelines and waiting for luck or 'fate' to play its part is a long, drawn-out and lonely strategy for life.
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Dan Bacon is the CEO of TheModernMan.com who provide dating advice for men.

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