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4 Simple Ways To Get Your Ex Back Easier

Jan 22, 2008
When you break up with someone you love, and it's the other person who decided that it was time to end the relationship, you can be pretty seriously broken up about it. Luckily, life doesn't have to end without your ex, and honestly it doesn't even have to BE without your ex!

Yeah, I'm serious. It can actually be easier to get your ex back than to face the pain of being without him or her! All you have to do is go about it the right way, and these following four things can really help you do just that, even if a couple of them might not seem like they'd really be much help.

1) Get out, have some fun with friends. You may not feel like having fun is even possible, but if you get out and into life again while you surround yourself with people you care about and who care about you, you'll surprise yourself by actually having a pretty good time.

Why is this helpful for getting your ex back? Well, it shows that you're not crippled by the loss, even if you may feel it inside. It creates a strong, admirable image that actually becomes pretty attractive. You're never more attractive than when you're getting along just fine, and that definitely works to your advantage when you're trying to draw your ex's eye again.

2) Analyze your past relationships, including the one that just ended. This is the part that seems so boring and pointless, but it's actually pretty important. You need to see what sorts of problems your relationships have had, particularly the one with the ex you're trying to win back. Once you can identify the problems in them, you can figure out which problems are of your doing.

And playing the blame game isn't going to help you any. Forget about anything your partners may have done to make everything fall apart. The only person you can change is yourself, and so you need to make those changes if you want to have a hope of working out this relationship or really any future ones as well. Focus on your own issues, and make sure that you're giving 100% to whatever relationship you may be in.

3) Don't let yourself slip on the side of physical appearance and hygiene. When people fall to pieces over a breakup and spend their days slumped in their sofas sobbing into a gallon-bucket of ice cream, it tends to show on their midsections...and that's not attractive, and not likely to get your ex back. Keep in shape, at least as good as you were when you broke up. It's far more appealing than the alternative.

4) Last but not least, my most important item of advice: leave your ex alone! Being up in your ex's face all the time is partially what caused him or her to leave you, most likely. Now that the pain of the breakup is on his or her shoulders too, any added tension or stress associated with you will drive your ex even further away, even to the point of being unreachable. Keep back until the point where you've made a lot of progress on your issues, and it becomes appropriate to make contact again.

When you do make contact, keep it light. A simple phone call about his or her well-being is sufficient -NO TALK ABOUT FEELINGS OR GETTING BACK TOGETHER-. Your ex doesn't want to hear about "the two of you". Simple consideration is all you want here. LATER you can get into a little bit more contact, until eventually you start spending a little time together again.

When you get to this stage, you want to make sure that you keep it light and simple. Again, no "feelings" talk. Just do things that the two of you used to really enjoy together, and it'll bring back happy memories. Bring back enough happy memories, and let it show enough that you've been working hard on your flaws and keeping yourself together, and you just may spark enough interest to inspire your ex to want to stop being an "ex" anymore.

No two people are exactly the same, so your relationship could easily be an exception to the rule, but for the vast majority of broken-hearted people out there, these tips will help you get your ex back easier than you never thought it could be. All it takes is a little effort, and you should be happily with your ex in no time!
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