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Understanding What Women Are Attracted To

Jan 29, 2008
What most men don't realize is for women attraction isn't a choice. They either feel it for you or they don't, it's that simple. If a woman doesn't feel attraction for you from the start, they more than likely never will.

So no matter what you say or do, if a woman does not feel attracted to you, you cannot simply convince her to "change her mind"

Just because you're rich, attractive, successful, drive a nice car, take her to fancy dinners, buy her expensive things, that won't make her feel attraction for you.

Women don't choose men they are attracted to based on logic. They might say they do, but they don't.

Women choose mates by their level of attraction they have for them (unless they are gold diggers) and not for what you can give them in return.

A big mistake a lot of men make is bribing women with gifts t make them fall in love with you. But it actually has the total opposite effect. Women see this as you needing their approval because you don't think you are worthy enough to date them without having to buy them things in return.

Why do you think so many women get into relationships with bad boys who treat them terribly? Because these guys trigger an attraction inside these women, it's not logical, but it's a fact.

I'm not saying you have to treat women terribly to make them feel attraction for you, but you don't have to cater to a woman's every need either.

Most women would much rather date a poor guy with no money. As long as he's charming, funny and just a fun date then a guy who's rich, buys them things and is stuffy and boring.

Women want what women want and you can either be what they want or be what they don't want, it's your choice.

This article isn't about changing you to suit women, it's about showing you that you don't need to do all these things to make women attracted to you, you don't need to bribe them, you don't need to stress if one woman doesn't like you, this is your life, you choose who you date, not the other way around.

When asked, most women say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends. They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk to about their problems.

Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn't get any farther than being just friends.

All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they can never seem to find a nice guy to date.

The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women aren't lying when they say they want these things...when they think logically they do, because it makes sense. But remember, women don't choose logically what they are attracted to.

So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down. But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control and act like a man should.
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