Home » Relationships » Dating

Displaying Alpha Male Traits

Feb 5, 2008
Voice Tonality

An alpha male speaks from the diaphragm. Singing instructors teach their students the same thing. The voice has more power and tonality (And more masculinity when coming from a male) when coming from deep inside the diaphragm. When speaking directly from the larynx (voice box) the human voice sounds unsure and less confident.

Call to mind all the men you have ever been around who thrive with women. Ever notice how they talk? A masculine voice is very appealing to a woman. A great way to practice this is to push air from your diaphragm when you speak and breathe. Practicing this strengthens the muscles in your diaphragm and makes your voice appear deep and masculine.

Speaking

When a man says words like "um" and "uh", it makes him sound unsure of what he is saying. If you can avoid these kinds of words, you will seem more confident. Politicians are instructed to do this when giving speeches.

Unless you have a speech impediment, there is no reason to trip over your own words. It makes you sound weak and unsure of yourself. Practice speaking into a recorder and playing it back. Eliminate "um" and "uh" from your vocabulary. Make a conscious effort in all communication, not just with women.

Talking Speed

A fast speaking speed shows a lack of confidence. A slow speaking speed, by contrast, has an opposite effect. Plus, when you pause for effect it shows higher status.

Use a recorder and practice. The recorder never lies!

Annunciation

Don't mumble. When you annunciate, it is clear you aren't embarrassed of what you are saying. This displays confidence.

Practice, practice, practice!

Eye Contact

This is huge. If a man looks a woman in the eye when beginning a conversation, it is imperative that the woman look away first. Not enough emphasis can be put on this point. This sets things off on the right tone. However, there is a fine line between staring and having confident eye contact. A good rule of thumb is to look her in the eyes more when you are talking, and less when she is talking.

I can't even begin to explain how important this is. If you disregard everything else in this book, don't disregard this! Try this: The next time you are talking to a woman you fancy, wait for the moment when the two of you "lock eyes". Whatever you do, make her look away first! This will have a very powerful effect on her. This will also give you an opportunity to observe her pupils (More on this later). She will start to blush, look down (A sign of submission), and trip over her words. She is now in the presence of a strong, powerful man.
About the Author
To read more free advice on attracting and dating women , please go to http://www.hellotojane.com/ , where science and seduction come together!
Rating:
Please Rate:
(Average: Not rated)
Views: 173
Print Email Report Share
Article Categories
    • Artists
    • Gambling
    • Humanities
    • Humor
    • Movies
    • Music
    • Photography
    • Tattoos
    • Television
    • Classic Cars
    • Motorcycles
    • Recreational Vehicles
    • SUVs
    • Trucks
    • Vans
    • Branding
    • Business Opportunities
    • Careers and Jobs
    • Corporate
    • Customer Service
    • Direct Mail
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Ethics
    • Financing
    • Franchising
    • Home-Based Business
    • Human Resources
    • Import and Export
    • Leadership
    • Management
    • Market Research
    • Marketing and Advertising
    • Negotiation
    • Network Marketing
    • Networking
    • Organizational
    • Presentation
    • Project Management
    • Public Relations
    • Small Business
    • Strategic Planning
    • Team Building
    • Telemarketing
    • Training
    • Data Recovery
    • Databases
    • Games
    • Hardware
    • Networks
    • Operating Systems
    • Programming
    • Security
    • Software
    • Spyware and Viruses
    • Ask an Expert
    • College and University
    • Home Schooling
    • K-12
    • Languages
    • Online Education
    • Psychology
    • Accounting
    • Credit
    • Currency Trading
    • Debt Consolidation
    • Insurance
    • Investing
    • Leasing
    • Loans
    • Mortgage
    • Mutual Funds
    • Personal Finance
    • Stock Market
    • Structured Settlements
    • Taxes
    • Wealth Building
    • Coffee
    • Cooking
    • Gourmet
    • Recipes
    • Wine and Spirits
    • Acne
    • Aerobics
    • Alternative Medicine
    • Beauty
    • Cancer
    • Cosmetics
    • Depression
    • Diabetes
    • Diseases and Conditions
    • Fitness Equipment
    • Fitness
    • Hair Loss
    • Heart Disease
    • Medicine
    • Men's Health
    • Muscle Building
    • Nutrition
    • Skin Care
    • Supplements and Vitamins
    • Weight Loss
    • Women's Health
    • Yoga
    • Arts and Crafts
    • Babies
    • Collecting
    • Elderly Care
    • Genealogy
    • Hobbies
    • Parenting
    • Pets
    • Pregnancy
    • Woodworking
    • Feng Shui
    • Gardening
    • Home Appliances
    • Home Security
    • Interior Design
    • Landscaping
    • Affiliate Programs
    • Article Marketing
    • Auctions
    • Audio
    • Banner Advertising
    • Blogging
    • Broadband
    • Domain Names
    • E-Books
    • E-Commerce
    • Email Marketing
    • Ezines and Newsletters
    • Forums
    • Internet Marketing
    • Link Popularity
    • Pay-Per-Click
    • Podcasting
    • RSS
    • Search Engine Marketing
    • Search Engine Optimization
    • Security
    • Social Media
    • Spam
    • Video
    • Viral Marketing
    • Web Design
    • Web Development
    • Web Hosting
    • Copyright
    • Cyber Law
    • Intellectual Property
    • National, State, Local
    • Patents
    • Regulatory Compliance
    • Trademarks
    • Buying
    • Selling
    • Baseball
    • Basketball
    • Boating
    • Cycling
    • Extreme Sports
    • Fishing
    • Football
    • Golf
    • Hockey
    • Hunting
    • Martial Arts
    • Running
    • Scuba Diving
    • Soccer
    • Swimming
    • Tennis
    • Astrology
    • Buddhism
    • Christianity
    • Faith
    • Hinduism
    • Islam
    • Judaism
    • Meditation
    • Metaphysical
    • New Age
    • Cable and Satellite TV
    • Cell Phones
    • Communication
    • Gadgets and Gizmos
    • GPS
    • Satellite Radio
    • Video Conferencing
    • VoIP
    • Addictions
    • Coaching
    • Goal Setting
    • Motivational
    • Stress Management
    • Time Management
    • Clothing
    • Electronics
    • Fashion
    • Gifts
    • Jewelry
    • Causes and Organizations
    • Environment
    • History
    • Holidays
    • Men's Issues
    • Nature
    • Philosophy
    • Politics
    • Women's Issues
    • World Affairs
    • Air Travel
    • Camping
    • Cruises
    • Destinations
    • Outdoors
    • Article Writing
    • Book Reviews
    • Copywriting
    • Fiction
    • Non-Fiction
    • Poetry
    • Quotes
    • Screenplay
    • Tools and Resources