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Getting Your Ex Back With The Right Attitude

Feb 9, 2008
I know that it can be a really depressing and angry time when you're dumped by your girlfriend, but losing your cool is no way to get her back. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you'll have to keep your head on and think positively!

You ever heard the phrase "attitude makes the difference?" It's a slogan for some ad campaign...an anti-bullying campaign for kids or something. The point is, it's true. Attitude makes a huge difference in whatever you're doing, and very much so when you're seeking to get your ex back.

Maintaining positivity and motivation is essential, because in brutal honesty...you have your work cut out for you. It's not easy to get your ex back. It cAN be, but there's not a whole lot of certainty I can give you without knowing your situation. Just remember that almost anything is salvageable if there's still love there. So keep your chin up, and keep these things in mind:

1) If you're going to get her to take you back, you're going to have to work on yourself a bit...in fact this is pretty much the key to redeeming any relationship: figuring out what made it go downhill and fixing the problems. The hard part is that the problems may be things that are behaviors that come 100% naturally to you, and so will be tough to break. All I can say is hang in there, you'll see your hard work pay off.

2) Don't take things too fast with her when you do end up making contact again. A simple phone call just to say "what's up" is usually a decent ice re-breaker, and you should keep it nonthreatening and unaggressive from there. Moving too quickly will probably just make things worse, so keep it light and easy. Move at the pace she's comfortable with.

3) After getting your ex back, you have to make sure you don't do the same idiot things to drive her away again. Relaxing on your hard self-work when you get what you want is a great way to lose what you got. And don't just think "oh, I did it once, I can get her back again." Usually after two breakups with the same person, for the same reasons, it's really difficult to coax a girl into giving it yet another try.

It's important not to forget any of these things, but the most important is to make sure that attitude of yours is steadily on track. Staying positive will not only help you in your efforts to get your girl back, but throughout all areas of your life. Maintaining a healthy outlook on things has enabled people to do incredible things...so why not you?
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