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Bride And Groom Plan Your Wedding Together

Feb 11, 2008
Planning your wedding together is one of the best exercises you can possibly do to making your marriage relationship one of equal partnership. There are many decisions to be made. You and your fiancÚ will have to learn how to negotiate and compromise with everyone from suppliers to attendants, guests, parents and especially each other. During the months leading up to the wedding, you will get to know your fiancÚ and learn things about each other that may not have been apparent before.

It was not that long ago the weddings were simply considered as only the bride's "day in the sun" .The groom's role in most cases was simply to be there, and on time.

If the groom donned a tuxedo, then even better. Picking up the bar tab and saying "I do" added to the successful wedding event. Today, in 2008, many wedding grooms are more than involved in the wedding process and if anything is more than enthusiastic about their wedding. Grooms now have as many opinions about their wedding day and its planning and follow though implementation,

When starting to plan your wedding, it is most vital and important to sit down as a couple and discuss how the two of you foresee handling the countless decisions you will face as well as overcoming any obstacles along the path towards "the big day". If you are not sure how your fiancÚ feels, ask them about their preferences for example on the meal, the wine, flowers and even wedding cake. Both of you should have opinions.

In all actuality this is a most enlightening exercise in uncovering different values, preferences and assumptions as well as thought prices. Indeed if you future mate seems to have no interest or preferences (other than making you happy), then should draw some attention by yourself as to person that you are intending to marry.

When it comes to wedding planning, everyone from your grandmother to your maid of honor may well be giving you advice and telling you the "way it should be". It is most interesting to note that many people are reliving their wedding day, in their memories, which may or may not be totally accurate and true to the point. While it's important to have varied viewpoints of input, remember is your "day in the sun" and your decisions as to what will be chosen. In essence they had their chance. Now it's your turn.

It seems that some men are traditional and want little part in the wedding planning process. If this is a concern for the bride, then it should be discussed as partners. On the other hand this may well be a blessing for the bride and the groom is showing her real concern and love, that his bride should be the center of attention "his princess.

All in all your wedding day is the beginning of a start of a new era in both your lives. It should be a positive event in both your lives. Planning for the wedding day should flow easily like a smoothly flowing river. The river of your future life.
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