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The Art Of Flirting - How To Flirt With Women

Feb 15, 2008
I would like to ask you a question.

Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the "lets just be friends" category?

Do you know the reason for this occurrence?

More than likely you did know how to flirt with her properly.

Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.

So why is flirting so important?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don't have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there's no attraction, what does that make you?

Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.

You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.

And the secret is - flirting isn't really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn't work is when it's done WRONG.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

These are mixed signals.

Your words communicate something different than your actions are communicating.

Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.

MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!

On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!

MISTAKE #3: They Rely On Words Instead Of Actions

Although, flirting includes what you say and the way you say it, the most powerful performance comes from your non-verbal body language. The small simple things like raising an eyebrow, tilting your head to one side and that wicked little grin, that carries the most meaning in a seemingly innocent remark.

MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.

If you're not having fun when flirting - and more importantly, if the girl isn't having fun - then you are doing something WRONG.

We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?

Use as many sexual overtones as possible, this is a good way to flirt, however, you must keep it subtle.

So for instance, if you're at a bar, and the girl you're with orders a drink and then turns to you and asks if you'd like something, you could jokingly say - "You're not trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me, are you?" (Of course, this is said with a wink and a nod.)

This lets her know you are interested without saying it outright. Flirting is implication and it is fun and lighthearted.

On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don't do that on the first date.

Do you understand how all this works?

Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.

While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that is building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction.

And that is when the real fun begins.
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